How Violence Manifests and What It Means

Violence against women can take many forms. It often starts subtly and may go unnoticed for a long time. But every form of violence leaves its mark – emotionally, physically, or socially. We provide information on different types of violence, highlight warning signs, and explain the available support options. No one has to go through this alone. If you are affected or unsure whether your experience qualifies as violence, we are here for you.

What Is Domestic Violence?

Domestic violence happens where one should feel safest – within a partnership, family, or close environment. It takes many forms and often follows a cycle of violence: rising tension leads to an outburst, followed by a period of calm, apologies, or promises – until the cycle begins again.

Domestic violence is not limited to ongoing relationships or shared households. It can continue after separation, even when the couple or family no longer lives together, or when violence is «only» threatened. Children who witness violence are also deeply affected.

Many affected people feel trapped, but there is a way out. If you’re questioning whether your relationship is affected by violence, talk to us – you don’t have to go through this alone.

Sexual Violence: When Boundaries Are Violated

Sexual violence means being forced into sexual acts – through physical force, threats, or coercion. It can happen anywhere: in a partnership, within the family, in social circles, or by strangers. It is not about desire, but about power and control.

The term sexualized violence emphasizes that sexual acts are used as a tool of oppression. It often begins subtly: unwanted touches, intrusive messages, or degrading comments can be early warning signs. Digital abuse, such as sharing intimate images without consent, is also a form of sexualized violence.

Survivors of sexual violence often feel shame or guilt, but responsibility always lies with the perpetrator. No one has the right to cross your boundaries. If you are uncertain or need support, we are here for you.

Control, Degradation, Manipulation: This Is Psychological Violence

Not all violence leaves visible marks. Psychological violence attacks self-worth, manipulates, and diminishes those affected. It can take the form of insults, humiliation, threats, or constant control – often so subtly that it is recognized too late. It is also common in toxic relationships.

Typical signs include demeaning comments, blame-shifting, or isolating someone from family and friends. Even silent treatment or threats («If you leave, something will happen») are forms of psychological violence. These patterns can cause deep harm. If you are affected, seek help – no one should be treated this way.

Financial Dependence as a Form of Violence

Financial dependence can make it difficult for those affected to see a way out of an abusive relationship. Economic violence occurs when a person is financially controlled – whether by withholding money, forbidding employment, or forcing financial dependency. Taking out debt in the victim’s name is also a form of this abuse. If you are denied access to money or pressured financially, seek support – there are ways to regain control.

Stalking: Constant Control Is Not Affection

Stalking means being repeatedly and deliberately followed, monitored, or harassed. This can include someone showing up at your home or workplace, making persistent calls, or sending endless messages. Cyberstalking – being tracked, threatened, or pressured online – is another form of this abuse. Stalking causes significant psychological distress and fear. If you are affected, take it seriously and seek help. You don’t have to face this alone.